What is holding you back from your destiny...what is keeping you from your fullest potential.
This is the question I would ask myself in those times in my life I may feel uninspired. Today I want to deal with personal business matters, our mindsets... Well, I know for a fact my belief and perception of my life can make or break my business. You cannot look in the mirror and have a positive perception about your business and not see greatness in yourself as a person. What happens when hiding behind your business no longer silence your personal issues? It is good to function with a healthy state of mind.
How many times did I start a business and lose interest??
I lost interest in my business because I could not let got of personal issues in my life. Entertaining depression left me empty when it was time to pour into my business. You cannot dwell in self pity and think you have the mental capacity to successfully sustain a business that your building from scratch. What is going to keep you going in the ground stages when there isn't any income starting out. What will keep you positive and on your daily routine when you do not want to do it because you feel depress or down about something. It is not easy pouring into your dream or your business, when you are down in the dumps. The key is to focus on being at peace with your past.
You need to forgive yourself for the things you cannot change. This is not easily done...you the person...holding the grudge against yourself are not easily convinced that you are worth self forgiveness. Realize holding on to the past only makes you miserable and you are the reason your not moving forward.
1. Verbally state your claim...your positive perspective when confronted with a flashback from your past. So many times we like to replay stuff in our minds, we can't change. We like to revisit a issue just to regret the decision you made again years ago, again and again. Tell yourself this way of thinking is a waste of time. Tell yourself there is nothing I can do about that but learn from it. Let yourself know your not the same person and you are better.
2. Remember regret does not keep you from repeating history. Regret is a negative emotion, negative energy that attracts negativity to you. When you regret you are clearly on the road for repeating history. Regret, shame , anger, guilt, and depression is not you taking responsibility and making a change for a better. It simply is you being present and stuck in the past. You are robing present moments and your future.
3. Tell yourself, you have a right to be happy. Understand all the facts, when it comes down to your point of view. Let yourself know that is okay to see things in a positive way. Tell yourself, it is my job to state, claim, and feel peace in my life. I have learned you have to have peace with your life story. You have to have peace with your past...A business, husband, wife, and/or hobby cannot silence your story. You have to see the beauty in it...see the beauty in how you have changed as a person. Give yourself the credit that is do. You make new memories to dwell on. That is how you move forward.
4. Understand, you cannot deny your truth, you cannot deny your past. You can improve and build on your past. You can educate yourself so that you do not repeat history. You must not deny yourself the ability you have to look at your life and learn about yourself. You are awesome!! So what, the consequences came and you made it through that time in your life.
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Who knows, your truth my be your next niche...the field that you have lived through and know inside/out.
You can help someone else and add that side to your business. Your life and the healing process is value to someone else. Moving forward on those inward mental wars can be our greatest battles in life. Forgiving yourself is a necessity...good for mental, physical, spiritual and emotional health. Unresolved personal issues keep you from living a passionate filled life.
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